Update

I can't believe it's been just shy of a year since the last time I have posted!

Phyllis is doing wonderful and we talk regularly. I flew out to see her in June I think it was? Then I took a trip across country this past summer and made a stop along the way to see her. We live so far apart but we were lucky enough to have several opportunities to meet up. 

She has had some minor graft vs host type complications but from what I've been told, it's a fairly common thing. Yay for being healthy :)

Almost 1 Year Since the Donation!

Throughout this past year, my recipient and I have been able to correspond through letters that pass through NMDP to ensure anonymity. I have received letters from her husband, sister, mother, and son and I get so excited when I hear from her and her family. I just received a couple of letters last week that had been written back in September (there's about a month lag with sending it through NMDP and all).

But now, in exactly 10 days, it will have been 1 year since the donation and we will be allowed to release our contact information and correspond without going through NMDP. I've been counting down the days for a long time but since November started, I've been unable to contain my excitement!

More Letters!

A couple days ago, I received an email from Lee with a letter attached from my recipients sister. It was such a beautiful letter... she told me how beautiful her sister is, inside and out and how her sister is such an amazing person full of love, laughter, generosity and strength - pretty much exactly how I pictured her.

It warms my heart when I hear from them. :)

Wonderful News!

A little over a week ago I received a letter from my recipient saying that she's doing really well. She was released from the transplant facility before day 100 and actually could have gone home sooner than she did but her family was sick so they didn't want to risk it. She also said she was looking forward to meeting me and being able to hug me and thank me in person.

As everyone can imagine, I was so excited to get this letter - it truly means the world to me and I'm eagerly counting down until the 1 year mark in November :)

Engrafted Stem Cells!

I received a phone call on Friday with some news about my recipient. The stem cells have engrafted so she's making my blood cells now! She is doing well and was discharged from the hospital which is great news!

Merry Christmas!

2 Weeks Post Donation

Well, it's been 2 weeks since the donation took place. The area where the line was is still healing... I have a massive bruise in the groin/thigh area and a tiny little scabbed area where they inserted it. I rested up for a couple days then got busy and was on my feet a lot and I noticed some new bruising and swelling so I had to try to stay off my feet and ice the area for a day or two. It's looking much better now though. It's pretty much the coolest looking bruise ever and I wish I could show it off just for fun, but it's probably not socially acceptable to say to someone "hey, wanna see my cool bruise?" then whip off my pants to show them ;)

Anyway, I haven't heard any word from or about the recipient. I guess I am a little disappointed to have not heard anything yet but hopefully I will soon!

Lee will probably give me a call within the next couple of weeks and maybe have an update for me about her and how she is doing. Until then, I hope everyone had a lovely Thanksgiving and aren't stressing out too much this Christmas season... keeping in mind the real meaning behind Christmas :)

Donation Day Details

We got there at 6:30am after not sleeping at all the night before. They took vitals and had me sign some consent forms. They drew some blood to check all of my baseline levels and we had to wait for the results to come back before I could get the last filgrastim injection. In the mean time, the vascular surgeon came in and started to prep me to get the line put in. The process was quick and they used lidocaine to numb the area. They did the entire procedure right at the bedside. It caused a bit of discomfort but it wasn't anything major. There were 2 tubes connected to the line so the entire process was done through that... no needles in my arms all day! That was really nice! Otherwise I wouldn't have been able to move my arms around at all.

My handsome honey being manly carrying my bag 

The blood work came back and I was able to give myself the last filgrastim shot at 8am. Yes, I asked to give myself the shot because I've mastered it over the last 4 days making it completely painless. Per the NMDP, I had to wait 1 hour after the filgrastim injection for the process to begin so that was finally started at 9am. During the process, they want to make sure your blood isn't clotting through the tubes while it's being sent through to the apheresis machine so they use an anticoagulant to avoid that. The anticoagulant they use decreases calcium levels in the body so they give you a calcium drip. Symptoms of decreased calcium include tingling of the lips, possibly fingers, nose or other extremities. Probably 10 minutes in I started to feel my lips tingle a bit so they increased the calcium drip until the tingling subsided.

We were exhausted!

The entire day was just a lot of waiting. I think around noon the lab took a sample of what had been collected so far to see how the sample was looking. They said it was looking good so I hopefully wouldn't have to continue with the collection tomorrow because they were worried about that. One of the nurses told me that my CD34 cells were really high which was a good thing so that was promising. I reeeeeally didn't want to spend the night in the hospital with that line stuck in me all night!  

The apheresis machine

Around 3pm the collection ended and they took samples of the stem cells to send to the lab. From then I had to wait to see if they had gotten what they needed, and if they did, I had to wait 2 hours for the line to be removed. I found out that they got almost twice the number of CD34 cells that they needed so the countdown to 5pm was on! I couldn't wait to get that line out! They took the line out at 5 and the nurse had to put pressure on it for 30 minutes. The nurse literally sat at my bedside and put pressure on my groin area for a half hour... we had a fun conversation lol. The protocol at the hospital was to treat the vein as an artery; since they weren't stitching it shut, that meant the 30 minutes of pressure, and after that I had to leave a 5lb sandbag on the area for an hour. It stopped bleeding almost right away but I had to wait anyway. An hour and a half after the line was removed I was able to get up and walk around and they wanted to make sure the clot held while I moved around. They patched it up with some gauze and tape and by 7pm they wheeled me downstairs while my lovely boyfriend got the car and we were able to go home. The second the nurses walked in at that 1 hour mark for the sandbag I started taking the sandbag off and the gauze and popped right up out of bed because I was so eager to leave (and also go to the bathroom!)

Lee checked in with me a few times during the collection to see how I was doing. He was there for me through the entire thing and everyone involved was absolutely wonderful! The stem cells were being flown out with the curriur this morning (Friday). Hopefully once she receives the transplant he'll let me know and keep me up to date so then I can keep the blog up to date!

Yesterday was certainly a very long day! But I feel awesome today! The side-effects have been gone since Wednesday evening (day 4 of the filgrastim) so that was certainly really helpful so I wasn't aching all day during the collection. I honestly feel completely back to myself aside from the slight pain and tenderness from where the line was.

My cells!

I sent this picture to a friend of mine and she replied: "amazing to think there's someones future in that bag." That really made me think. This could save someones life. We forget how delicate and precious our lives are until we fear we might not have another day. I'm so honored to have been given the opportunity to do this... and how easy it was for me to do it. Sure, it took time out of my life, but it was worth it and I'd do it again in a heart beat.

6 am

It's 10 minutes to 6 and neither of us slept much. I'd say we both got maybe an hour or so. My honey stayed up with me and kept me company because I was so anxious. He found a vending machine and brought me back my choice of snacks when I was hungry earlier :)

I have to say the aches are hardly noticeable and haven't been since last night so that's certainly a nice change!

Anyway, the next update will probably be from the hospital!

Filgrastim Injection #3

I went to the doctor today to get a blood test done to make sure everything is going okay. I've been getting really bad headaches and Lee wanted me to get checked out. I assumed it was just a side-effect of the filgrastim and was reluctant to go to the doctor but she told me to come in and get blood work done so I did and everything was fine. I've noticed that I feel worse at night and in the mornings; once I'm awake and moving around I feel a lot better.

Side-effects include: headache, achy legs and lower back, some back and neck pain, slight nausea at times but no vomiting.

More than half way there!! :)

Day 2-3 Side-Effects

It's the morning of day 3 so I haven't gotten the third injection and I'm really uncomfortable. I was up a lot of the night tossing and turning. It hurts to sit still for too long. I have this dull but constant ache in my legs and lower back. I've had a super headache on and off too. I'm feeling a little nauseous but I can't tell if that's from the medicine or lack of sleep last night. 

I have to drive home today which is about an hour and a half drive... Not too long but I really don't feel like moving, let alone packing up my car and driving. 

This really makes me cherish my health. I know cancer patients sometimes receive filgrastim treatments so they go through this too and I'm sure this is nothing compared to chemotherapy. I can't even imagine. I wouldn't be strong enough to do that.  

Filgrastim Injection #2

Well, I've made it to day 2! I woke up today not feeling the greatest... my legs were really achy, a dull ache in my lower back and my throat felt a little sore/swollen. Sometimes when I'm really overtired my legs feel that same ache so I almost thought that was what it was. I took some Tylenol and took a nice long shower and felt much better afterwards.

I did my shot around noon and it wasn't that bad. I'm actually kind of happy I'm doing it myself so I don't have to drive anywhere to get it done. A little pain at today's injection site and still a bit from yesterdays... almost like a bruise but that is to be expected.

I started to get some busy work done and was able to finish it but then I started playing some mindless games on my phone and instantly fell asleep on the couch. I actually slept most of the afternoon away... probably a good 2 hours or so.




Tomorrow is another day!

One More Week!

The donation is exactly one week away from today!

It really hit me yesterday because Lee mentioned that he'd be mailing the injections which will start on Saturday and then he emailed me a hotel confirmation number for Tuesday evening. I live about an hour away from the hospital that the donation is taking place at so we'll stay over at a hotel near the hospital so we won't have to get up so early on the morning of.

I sent my recipient a letter in the mail Monday but it has to go through Lee first. He'll get the letter and make sure it doesn't contain any identifying information and then he'll pass it on to her, wherever she is.

I've been thinking about her a lot and thinking about what she's going through as she begins preparation for the transplant. All that I know is that she'll be receiving chemo and/or radiation to basically destroy her immune system so her body can accept my stem cells without rejecting them. The NMDP website has information on what the patient will experience in preparation of receiving the transplant which can be found here: http://marrow.org/Patient/Transplant_Process/The_Preparative_Regimen.aspx

I know I've previously talked about my mother working in an oncology office and spoke of the many patients, that turned into friends, that lost their battle with cancer. When I think about my recipient, I picture her being every single one of those people I once knew. I picture them all getting the second chance at life that they all deserved and the thought warms my heart. I hope I make them proud.