Distance

The years seem to go by so quickly. Phyllis and I have grown very close and I'm so lucky to have her in my life. She's actually moving this month and will be within a reasonable driving distance now! (8 hour drive vs a 6 hour fight!) I'm pretty excited about having her closer so hopefully we can see more of each other. 

She's healthy and doing well. 4.5 years cancer free, a lifetime to go!

What Does It Mean to Live?

Phyllis and I met 2 years ago this month! Can you believe it?! She is doing well and she just got back from a trip to Hawaii with her family. Traveling and spending time with the ones you care about most are what I envisioned for her back before I knew her. When I first learned I was going to donate, my hope was that by me donating, someone would have a second chance at life. And when I think about life and living, that's what I dream about... traveling, exploring the world while being with the ones I hold nearest and dearest to me. Everyone has different ideas of living, but when it comes down to it, we are all human and we all want the same thing - love.

You often hear people ask, if you found out you only had X number of days to live, what would you do? So what would you do? Make the most of today and of every day. Put down your phones and live in the moment. Be present. You'll never remember the best day of technology you ever had but you'll make memories that will last a lifetime and when you're taking your last breath, you'll know that you truly lived.

Happy Friday!

Dreams

It's that time again... time for an update: 

Phyllis is doing well and in fact, just had a birthday! It just so happens that my fiancee and I got engaged on her birthday a couple years ago (before we even knew her! - Crazy, right?!)

She and I speak regularly, maybe 2-3 times per week. We both wish we lived closer but sometimes life and circumstances just get in the way. Hopefully we will be able to see each other sometime this year? Personally, I think Americans work too hard and don't get enough vacation days :p I'd be fine taking a month or two without pay so I could travel. Ahh, I'll keep dreaming. :)

Serenity

Update

I can't believe it's been just shy of a year since the last time I have posted!

Phyllis is doing wonderful and we talk regularly. I flew out to see her in June I think it was? Then I took a trip across country this past summer and made a stop along the way to see her. We live so far apart but we were lucky enough to have several opportunities to meet up. 

She has had some minor graft vs host type complications but from what I've been told, it's a fairly common thing. Yay for being healthy :)

Donor/Recipient Meeting!

I can't believe I haven't updated since 2013!

It is now April of 2014 and I have some wonderful news! Phyllis and her family planned a trip to the East coast and I was lucky enough to be able to meet up with her and her family members this past week. It was, by far, one of the greatest days in my entire life. My recipient is one of the most beautiful people, inside and out, that I have ever known and I was and am still at a loss for words. We got to spend a couple hours together but the time flew by. When it was time for us to go, I instantly felt like part of me was leaving. It hasn't even been a week since we met and I've already decided to start planning a trip to where she lives :)

Phyllis

Well, the one year mark from the donation came and went. I sent Lee my info out right away but considering the lag between NMDP and such, I assumed I wouldn't hear much for a while. To my surprise, within a couple days I received an email directly from my recipient! Her name is Phyllis and she lives almost completely on the other side of the country. We have been emailing back and forth since then and it has been such an awesome experience. I look forward to hearing from her and always smile when I see an email from her pop up in my inbox.

She's doing well and I've even gotten to speak with some of her family members too. She's an amazing woman and I so look forward to getting to meet her and her family and finally give her the hug I've been holding onto for her for over a year now. 

I cannot believe how much things have changed in over a year. I looked back at some of my older posts and was reminded to keep counting my blessings. 

Almost 1 Year Since the Donation!

Throughout this past year, my recipient and I have been able to correspond through letters that pass through NMDP to ensure anonymity. I have received letters from her husband, sister, mother, and son and I get so excited when I hear from her and her family. I just received a couple of letters last week that had been written back in September (there's about a month lag with sending it through NMDP and all).

But now, in exactly 10 days, it will have been 1 year since the donation and we will be allowed to release our contact information and correspond without going through NMDP. I've been counting down the days for a long time but since November started, I've been unable to contain my excitement!